OBITUARY

Roger Robert Provey Jr., a cherished father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, sports official, and friend, passed away suddenly on November 4, 2025, at the age of 74 in River Rouge, Michigan. Born on July 28, 1951, in Romulus, Michigan, Roger lived a life marked by passion, kindness, and an unwavering love for his family and community.
Roger grew up in Wayne, Michigan attended Monroe Elementary, Ben Franklin Junior High, and graduated from Wayne Memorial High School in 1969.
Roger loved music and sports. His love of music had him singing lead roles in the musical production of the “Mikado” up in Junior High School. He also sang in the Choir in High School and at Eastern Michigan University. His University Choir toured Europe.
His love of sports had him playing football and baseball in elementary school, little league, Babe Ruth league and High School.
Roger’s journey began as the son of Roger Provey Sr. and Florence Provey, both of whom predeceased him. Roger was also predeceased by his wife Brenda, brother Andre LaVelle and his sister Karen Provey.
His legacy continued through his children Carl, John (Kayla), and Kendolynn (Brian). He was the proud Papa to C.J (Amanda), Christopher, Robert, Jacqui, Tonja, Kristyn (Jordan), and Scott (Kayla). His joy was further multiplied by his great-grandchildren Brayden, Noah, Gideon, Julian “JJ,” with each new addition bringing a sparkle to his eye. Roger is also survived by his brothers Craig Provey, Douglas and Wayne LaVelle.
For over 40 years, Roger dedicated his time to the sports he loved as an official. His passion for officiating football, basketball, baseball, and softball was unmatched. As a member of the Michigan High School Athletic Association (MHSAA), he was highly respected for his fair and consistent approach to the game. Athletes, coaches, and fellow sports enthusiasts admired Roger for his integrity on the field and his ability to make the tough calls with a sense of justice.
Roger’s character was one of genuine warmth and friendliness. He was a man who never met a stranger, and it was a common occurrence to run into someone he knew, no matter where he went. His ability to strike up a conversation with anyone made him a beloved figure in his community.
He was also an active member of the Westland Friendship Center, where he enjoyed playing cards-Euchre and Pinochle-four times a week with his friends. Their monthly lunches at various local eateries were events filled with laughter, camaraderie, and fond memories.
Beyond his human connections, Roger had a soft spot for dogs, and his affection for his furry friends was evident to all who knew him. His kind-hearted nature extended to all living creatures, and his presence brought joy to every room.
Roger Provey Jr. lived a full and active life, leaving a legacy of love, dedication, and kindness. His absence will be deeply felt by his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him. As we remember Roger, we celebrate a life well-lived, a game well-played, and a man well-loved. His memory will continue to inspire and guide us in the days to come.